To be very cliche to say ''Its been awhile I haven't post anything'' but the truth is, IT IS! Hahahaha. Yes its been awhile. Not that I have don't have any to story about (sort of 'type' it about) but the idea that I have is not even AH PANJANG SANGAT MUKADIMAH AKU MALAS
Since that a few of my friends and seniors asked me How was with my pregnancy (WAS YE WAS! Tunggu Raysha 2 tahun please) from trimester 1 to 3. Any carv, How I do it.. da da diada~ So I think this is the correct place for me to just type in and let everyone knows how my pregnancy journey was. Well, dalam bentuk sinopsis la since I've posted phase by phase sampai dah bersalin from previous entries. So YEAY? Kay moving on...
Before I start bubbling even further, I would like to congratulate everyone who get knocked up! Alhamdulillah! Allah is the Best and Aweeesooomeee~ What a pleasant news to hear from a closed people. Please make sure you-future-mommies to be pink in health. MAKE SURE (cekak pinggang)
Ahh I missed that one great feeling waking up and feeling all excitement looking at upt test with double line~
At my first trimester, I don't really tell public (macam artis) I'm pregnant since Mom told me its still new and fragile, anything could happen. Excited, tapi diam. Tapi excited ni. So what I did was...
I make sure I eat really really really healthy food. I don't take any type of sour-acidic-type-of-mouth-pleasant thou I really had bad morning sickness. I assumed ''Oh this might be to sharp for the fetus, I'll be eating you in 12 month coming~". No asam, No limau, No seafood, No acidic and No coloring food just green vegies and lots of fish (husband asked me to have lots of fish).
I don't do any heavy job or any heavy lifting or climbing. Because I imagined "ahh this mini fishball inside me is still un-firm glued to my wall kay I just sit and relax and pretend Imma blue whale auukk auukk" (cenni ke bunyi dia?) Yes, you need to relax and stress free as the fetus will happily and healthy develop itself (in my own theory) xoxo Prof Madya Dato' Shukriah Jasni *kenyit mata*.
Don't miss taking my daily medicine either its from my gynae or self vitamins. Those extra pills you have is to help the fetus to develop (in my own theory again) takkan la doctor bagi vitamin sesuka suruh makan atau buat koleksi kan? MAKAN. First trimester isn't that long time to reach so hold on mommies.
As I entered second trimester, this is the phase where I empowered myself for FOOD ALL SEASON~ Oh yes! This is the phase where soon-mothers love where they always, ALWAYS assume '' LOL GIMME THOSE DONUTS I'M EATING FOR TWO!" *pointing at the belly* I love this phase (sebab tu sampai sekarang payah naauu nak kurus balik). But still going on with my medicines. During pregnancy I only took 2type of pills which Obimin & Calcium. Else I just have green vegies. You can google the side effects of obimin and what's in it. Time 2nd trimester I announced to public. And on top of all, my belly start to show. Omeiii. Tak banyak pantang larang pon during 2nd trimester. I eat a lot and crazy for fruits. Must say I spend RM6 per day at the office just for fruits. Don't wear tight pants. Not just it will make you look like a cheese burger with extra cheese, but really uncomfy. Give you fetus free space for develop process, or maybe your fats too. LOLOLOLOL. First time ever I bought jeans yang macam jengging dekat perut. And during 2nd trimester jugak, I was really committed to house chores and any job. Maybe its hormone and maybe it just me. At almost-hit-end-of 2nd trimester, I met an excident where and hospitalized at Hospital Temerloh where we was on our way to Terengganu. So I suggest, at this phase, just stay home and don't plan for any long distance especially with car travel. Alhamdulillah, after bleeding and painful 'mulut itik', I can happily continue as normal pregnancy. Nampak gagah pekasa nauuu~ (self esteem)
Final semester, is where your belly have fully shown. Macam ni
If you have read pregnancy informations or any facts you heard from a senior (Omak ekau la kan) Walk more so that the baby can pop-out easily. Oh well, I can't tell if is it true or not, but Yes, I walked a lot to the office, I climbed stairs. Tapi Raysha tetap tempah 2hari untuk keluar and I have to induced. So boleh pakai tak theory tu?
Applied lotsa Bio Oil or any oil should do. Perineral Message is recomended tapi aku seram. So aku tak buat. It helps for your ve-jay-jay to soften its wall during deliver.
But overall what I told myself during pregnancy
Shukriah, you gotta be, HAVE to be positive. The baby relate to what your heart feels. And you need to be as positive as you can.
Yes really. Aku cuba berfikir positif and tak memanjakan diri as aku akan jadi seorang Ibu. Mengidam aku cari sendiri, melainkan makanan yang betul susah untuk aku dapatkan, aku request. I've trained myself jangan lembik. I gotta deal with a lil me soon. Kalau aku lembik acano? No, selama mengandung aku tak layan diri bagai Kate Winslett, I work, I do chores, I do stuff. Mommy-to-be tak boleh la lembik. Pegila do something even mop lantai ala ala tapak sulaiman.
Pregnancy is a real journey, not sort of a drama you've seen ...
Apapun, lain manusia lain kafarahnya. Lain manusia lain ujiannya. Always, always turn to Him and ask as many as you wish for. He'll listen.
.... the one who fight in the womb with me together for joys together
Raysha Ammara
The best is yet to come
CikPuan Shukriah Jasni
