When it comes to dealing with 'Orang lama' its never and always not easy. They do it old style way or in appropriate traditional way. After gave birth to Raysha 5 month ago, my confinement goes under my mom observation. Head to Toe. And Arief was really helpful and thoughtful of helping me til end of my maternity period.
See,
I wasn't really that 'decipline' during my maternity. It was so tight and stressed!
Ma can eat sayur ah?
TAK BOLEH
Ma can have ayam ah?
TAK BOLEH
Ma can have not-so warm water ah?
TAK BOLEH
Ma can I just not to eat
TAK BOLEH
Ma, Ummi said I can eat lobak putih and sawi
TAK BOLEH. NANTI ANGIN. URAT KEMBANG
Ma mandi sejuk sikit ok?
TAK BOLEH
Ma.. can
TAK BOLEH...
p/s : That time I was still bfeed Raysha
Ma style compared to other mothers style of confinement is nearly hit the same but Ma was really strict! Alang alang pantang, biar pantang betul. I cried alot during confinement. CRYING IS STRONGLY FORBIDDEN during maternity kay! But I cried anywayss~ Cried cause some say I can have 'allowed' vegies and meat and chicken. But mama insisted for me just to have IKAN TENGGIRI with pepper everyday! No sayur no nothing.
Stress new mommy was stressed. Which from those forbidden rules lead me to 'cheating'. During midnight while everyone is asleep (Arief and Raysha as well) with kain batik and socks on, I'll be quitely to the kitchen and drink cold drinks but not brave enough to eat anything. Sangat come clean sekarang!
My confinement meal.
From meal to daily Bekung + Berkapur + Bertungku. 2 weeks at start, I was so eager and put all my attention to these as I aim to have Marion Counter shape after gave birth. Well, it won't last so long when I started to feel tired and well let just say lazy to do those anymore. Confinement is all about Hot. I can't stand sleeping with my wet-sweat-shirt. Tak selesa!! Arief was on Ma's side. I don't care if Ma put on speaker with her nagged, I still want KIPAS!
Kata nak kurus balik? Cepat buat!
Arief have to do it for me EVERYDAY. Not that he's not grateful for this women is no longer sexy anymore (kikiki) but he really wanted to help me to gain my positive spirit to shaped back. Poor sayang.
Can you figure where's my flabby tummy? Barut please. Arief buatkan. Raysha was 3days old in this picture. I have to go back to PMC for jaundice check up
3 weeks confinement went to Terengganu for Arief award stuff I don't remember. SOCKS ON! Kelakar pakai socks jogging. I remembered everyone was staring at me
Gila apa baru lepas bersalin dah berjalan.
Iols terpaksa acik akak nek tok wan sekalian . Iols terpaksa
Well, too late to come clean and regret, it is as for now really hard for me to back on shape. Ma said I still can do it but I really like seriously don't have time to berpantang again. Pagi pagi bangun nak siap pegi kerja mana nak siap anak sempat ke nak baring sapu kabur dan berbarut?? (menangis) Soon to have second baby (well not that soon! 2years come..inshaaAllah ) I'll be flabby again..
1 month confinement
1month + confinement
44days end of confinement day
2 month after gave birth
2month after gave birth
3month after gave birth
4 month after gave birth
currently
is not that I didn't loose at all. A lot but I still have some extra flabby that I wish to get rid off easily. Ampun Ma.. next baby pantang bebaik. Apepun, Alhamdulillah for healthy and strong body for daily routine. ThankYou Allah. I wish for loose more. Hehehe.
Noted : Women before and After Gave birth shape is wayyy different. We now with really obvious pear shaped!
The best is yet to come
CikPuan Shukriah Jasni
